10-08-2024 06:55 PM
10-08-2024 06:55 PM
thanks @Bill16 it means a lot to know you care so much, still waiting on the kitchen benchtop, should be in by the end of this week. working on the dining room while im waiting, just needs a clean and some paint.
10-08-2024 07:21 PM
10-08-2024 07:21 PM
I bet your mum is really looking forward to the new kitchen mate @Jacques
10-08-2024 07:24 PM
10-08-2024 07:24 PM
yeah @Bill16 she is really excited, im just ready to have a kitchen again 5 weeks. i didn't realize how much i used the kitchen until i was without one
10-08-2024 08:01 PM
10-08-2024 08:14 PM - edited 10-08-2024 08:16 PM
10-08-2024 08:14 PM - edited 10-08-2024 08:16 PM
Thanks @TAB 🙏
I'm okay, as is Hannah 🐕
Been away all past week, as I had my Dad's funeral 😢. It was a rushed nearly 7 hr drive to Southern Tablelands on 24th July when I got word that Dad was dying. I got there in time to say my goodbyes while he was still aware enough to know I was there. I spent the night in his room with him, and he passed away the next day.
I spent a couple of days helping my brother plan the funeral, then drove back home for a week. Then drove back again for the funeral and stayed with my brother and his family on their farm. I got home Thursday night.
Unfortunately I didn't take Hannah as she gets car sick and it's just too far to be risking that. And for me, when driving long distances, I just want to get from A to B as quickly as possible with the least breaks. Pity, as she would have loved it on the farm.
She was a happy puppy to see me when I got back though. 💕 She is 9 months old now, growing up.
10-08-2024 08:19 PM
10-08-2024 08:19 PM
sounds busy @Emelia8 hope things went as well as they could
10-08-2024 08:39 PM
10-08-2024 08:43 PM
10-08-2024 08:43 PM
depends on other inheritance/getting back to work @Bill16 i mean 99% of time only me in car plus can cart stuff around for house
10-08-2024 08:45 PM
10-08-2024 08:45 PM
How do you reckon the inheritance situation is going to go? @TAB
10-08-2024 08:55 PM
10-08-2024 08:55 PM
well, still have 2 of original problems @Bill16 dont know how much estate is and dont know how many ways its getting divided.
my fathers share was going to be split 4 ways, but my siblings pulled out
he was one of 7 children so his share could be 1/7th
However , a few of them a rich and might have turned it down, so could be 1/4 even
then there's cousin who was first executor who drained around 1/4 of estate in fees so she could be getting told by govt executor whos in charge now she has to pay 2/3rds of it back.
bare min I would get is $40k and could be double that or more
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